Recent Podcasts

We also take a closer look at how family dynamics can be a model for societal transformation. By examining the key elements of a healthy family—mutual respect, active listening, and nonviolence—we uncover insights into fostering societal harmony. Through this lens, we discuss the importance of replacing divisiveness with empathy and understanding. Shifting from a win-lose to a win-win mindset can help us respect and hear everyone’s needs and voices, emphasizing that neglecting mental health and collective well-being comes at a high societal cost.

🏞️ A Love Affair with Nature: Phyllis finds solace and inspiration in the natural world. Her deep connection to the environment around her serves as both a source of tranquility and a wellspring of creativity.

🎨 Artistry as a Muse: Creativity flows through Phyllis’ veins. Her appreciation for art infuses her writing with vivid imagery and a unique perspective, offering readers a window into her soul.

Join Phyllis Leavitt as she diagnoses the collective mental illness of the “American Family” and outlines six steps crucial to repairing relationships in the US, especially by driving home the need to shift from a win-lose mindset to a win-win paradigm to heal societal divides.

In this video, Phyllis, a seasoned psychotherapist, shares her insights on therapy, healing, and navigating personal struggles. We discuss how she got into therapy, tips on finding the right therapist, and how to support someone in need. Phyllis also delves into the challenges of being in a religious cult, the impact of hurt people hurting others, and the fear stemming from political events in therapy. We explore accepting when we’re wrong, overprotecting children, overcoming powerlessness, and standing up to abusive systems. Lastly, Phyllis talks about breaking the cycle by healing our own wounds and offers advice for those who can’t afford therapy.

Jamie M. Lima is joined by Phyllis Leavitt to explore the emotional recovery process and necessary mindset shifts during divorce, particularly focusing on the impact on children. The discussion emphasizes maintaining integrity and the benefits of mediation. Strategies for achieving financial stability and health post-divorce are shared. Phyllis introduces her book, discussing family dynamics and the importance of integrity in conflict resolution. Closing thoughts offer reflections on navigating divorce with dignity and the importance of prioritizing well-being for both individuals and their families.

Licensed Mental Health Therapist and Author Phyllis Leavitt discusses the Psychology and Mental Health of America on the eve of the 2024 Election.

Phyllis seeks to understand America, the system we are in, and how the psychology of America can be viewed from a Family Systems perspective. The problems of America are discussed, as well as possible solutions we can employ within ourselves to help heal from violence and divisiveness.

Phyllis Leavitt has a Masters’ Degree in Psychology and Counseling from Antioch University. She co-directed the Parents United sexual abuse treatment program in Santa Fe, New Mexico for two years and then went into private practice full time. Phyllis has treated children, families, couples, and individual adults for 34 years, and has worked extensively with abuse and dysfunctional family dynamics, their aftermath, and some of the most important elements for healing.

She has two previous books, A Light in the Darkness and Into the Fire. Her latest book, America in Therapy: A New Approach to Hope and Healing for a Nation in Crisis, published by Morgan James Publishing, explores the roots of divisiveness and violence in America from a psychological point of view, with the goal of bringing the best of what heals relationships and restores us to safety, into national conversation. Phyllis lives with her husband in Taos, NM and is now focusing on writing and speaking.